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Columns & Opinion
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Savage Love
Mar 2, 2017
Damned if he doesn’t, damned if she doesn’t
Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more
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Savage Love
May 14, 2015
When your partner is 'one of those women'
Advice for a married man put out by the female anatomy. Plus: more on the price(s) of admission
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Nov 20, 2014
The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble
It's that kind of kink. Plus: knives and other sticking points of consensual bondage
By Dan Savage
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Columns & Opinion
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Savage Love
Jun 5, 2014
Just make the call
Plus: Pumping the brakes with anal sex, and retraining a dick to reach orgasm outside of masturbation.
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
May 29, 2014
Truly a dick move
Plus: Confronting your hyperconservative mother about being queer and playing poker in the sack.
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Mar 6, 2014
Moist toilette
Plus: Wanting your "pee-shy" boyfriend to open up, and a stepson who leaves a few drops behind
By Dan Savage
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Columns & Opinion
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Savage Love
Dec 26, 2013
Finger-blast from the past
Savage Love has been around for 20 years and people are still having trouble figuring out what the clitoris is all about. Here's a reminder from the archives.
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Oct 17, 2013
Spoiler alert: Everybody dies
Enough with all the little deaths. This week: big death!
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Sep 26, 2013
Terrible person wonders why he can't get a date
Plus: Debby Herbenick stops by to investigate a missing clitoris.
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Apr 25, 2012
Squirting next to/in front of/on your boyfriend
Plus: Extremely short-term relationships—can they turn into longer ones?
By Dan Savage
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