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Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Mar 2, 2017
Damned if he doesn’t, damned if she doesn’t

Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, sexual issues, misogyny, men's rights, PIV sex, clitoris, spanking, spanking conventions, Jillian Keena, Sex With Shakespeare, Shadow Lane, Boardwalk Badness Weekend, Crimson Moon, Spanking Club of New York, Texas All State Spanking Party, the Lone Star Spanking Party, golden showers, rebound sex, sexual fantasies, threesomes, ITMFA

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love May 14, 2015
When your partner is 'one of those women'

Advice for a married man put out by the female anatomy. Plus: more on the price(s) of admission
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Dan Savage, Savage Love, clitoris, orgasm, marriage, transgender, cisgender, online dating, ejaculation

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Nov 20, 2014
The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble

It's that kind of kink. Plus: knives and other sticking points of consensual bondage
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, trans guy, transgender, Dan Savage, Savage Love, clitoris, fetish, BDSM, gerbiling, Brian Fitzsimmons, University of British Columbia, orgasm, Jodi Arias, Travis Alexander, Nancy Grace, Kim Kardashian, bondage

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jun 5, 2014
Just make the call

Plus: Pumping the brakes with anal sex, and retraining a dick to reach orgasm outside of masturbation.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, sex-work etiquette, long-distance phone interaction, het cis, Boston, Seattle, trans sex worker, Fox News, anal sex, sex toys, lube, friends with benefits, orgasm, masturbation, clitoris, Dan Savage, Savage Love

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love May 29, 2014
Truly a dick move

Plus: Confronting your hyperconservative mother about being queer and playing poker in the sack.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, oral sex, gym shower, Dan Savage, Savage Love, bisexual, heteroflexible, pegging, anal sex, clitoris, Texas, conservatives, dominant, submissive, marijuana

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Mar 6, 2014
Moist toilette

Plus: Wanting your "pee-shy" boyfriend to open up, and a stepson who leaves a few drops behind
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, bowel movements, poop play, clitoris, Debby Herbenick, Indiana University, sexual health, Kinsey Institute, Great in Bed, orgasmic pathway, pelvic nerve, nerve cross talk, obstetric fistula, pee shy, piss play, semen, masturbation

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Dec 26, 2013
Finger-blast from the past

Savage Love has been around for 20 years and people are still having trouble figuring out what the clitoris is all about. Here's a reminder from the archives.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Sophia Wallace, Cliteracy, clitoris, masturbation, orgasm, vagina, nympho, female anatomy, performance anxiety

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 17, 2013
Spoiler alert: Everybody dies

Enough with all the little deaths. This week: big death!
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, drunk boyfriend, cheating, ex girlfriend, car crash, clitoris, male bisexuality, BDSM, yard sale, eBay, erotic masseur, sex worker

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 26, 2013
Terrible person wonders why he can't get a date

Plus: Debby Herbenick stops by to investigate a missing clitoris.
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, homosexual dating, Andrew Sullivan, classism, snobbery, clitoris, female orgasm, Debby Herbenick, Sex Made Easy, clitoral glans, abortion, hormonal birth control

Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Apr 25, 2012
Squirting next to/in front of/on your boyfriend

Plus: Extremely short-term relationships—can they turn into longer ones?
- By Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, hook up, hooking up, relationship advice, the fuckable world, sexual compatability, vanilla sex, squirting, clitoris, sexual anxiety, anal sex

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Damned if he doesn’t, damned if she doesn’t

Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more

When your partner is 'one of those women'

Advice for a married man put out by the female anatomy. Plus: more on the price(s) of admission

The kind of letter that gets Dan Savage in trouble

It's that kind of kink. Plus: knives and other sticking points of consensual bondage

Just make the call

Plus: Pumping the brakes with anal sex, and retraining a dick to reach orgasm outside of masturbation.

Truly a dick move

Plus: Confronting your hyperconservative mother about being queer and playing poker in the sack.

Moist toilette

Plus: Wanting your "pee-shy" boyfriend to open up, and a stepson who leaves a few drops behind

Finger-blast from the past

Savage Love has been around for 20 years and people are still having trouble figuring out what the clitoris is all about. Here's a reminder from the archives.

Spoiler alert: Everybody dies

Enough with all the little deaths. This week: big death!

Terrible person wonders why he can't get a date

Plus: Debby Herbenick stops by to investigate a missing clitoris.

Squirting next to/in front of/on your boyfriend

Plus: Extremely short-term relationships—can they turn into longer ones?

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Advice to a guy with self-admitted women issues. Plus: spanking convos, peeing for pay, and more

Advice for a married man put out by the female anatomy. Plus: more on the price(s) of admission

It's that kind of kink. Plus: knives and other sticking points of consensual bondage

Plus: Pumping the brakes with anal sex, and retraining a dick to reach orgasm outside of masturbation.

Plus: Confronting your hyperconservative mother about being queer and playing poker in the sack.

Plus: Wanting your "pee-shy" boyfriend to open up, and a stepson who leaves a few drops behind

Savage Love has been around for 20 years and people are still having trouble figuring out what the clitoris is all about. Here's a reminder from the archives.

Enough with all the little deaths. This week: big death!

Plus: Debby Herbenick stops by to investigate a missing clitoris.

Plus: Extremely short-term relationships—can they turn into longer ones?

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