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Savage Love
Oct 23, 2019
School for sexual scoundrels
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
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Jan 3, 2019
'Please tell me where I can find my porn!'
How Tumblr's ban on NSFW content harms queer and kinky people. Plus: you shouldn't need a "spotter" at a swinger party.
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Nov 27, 2018
Should she tell the man she's seeing about her new job as an escort?
A woman wonders how much to reveal to a beau, while another questions whether anal sex can ever be pleasurable.
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Nov 15, 2018
‘I've always wanted to tie girls up, but I can never convince a woman to let me’
Tips for getting into bondage without being a menace or a creep. Plus: Dan issues the fastest DTMFA ever!
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Feb 28, 2018
‘Should I be worried about STDs from oral sex?’
And other no-brainers from the slush pile
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Feb 21, 2018
She’s bi herself. Why is she so threatened by her boyfriend’s bisexuality?
Dan calls on experts to address insecurity and biphobia. Plus: what to do if kink's not for you
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Jun 7, 2017
'I hate how my boyfriend has sex with me'
What to do. Plus: a “GGG” clarification
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Jul 28, 2016
An intersex woman’s dilemma
Is it unethical not to disclose the condition? Plus: a porn/real-life mismatch, fun with butt plugs, and more
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Mar 26, 2015
Straight guy seeks massive cocks
Plus: A GF who can't take birth control, another who can't stop subbing, and another who finds bodily secretions 'icky.' Can their partners' sex lives be saved?
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Sep 11, 2014
Uncle Dan's grab bag
Bad news for the premature ejaculator, good news for the cuckolding novice, what gives with that "little brown prince," and more
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Oct 31, 2012
Unclean scrotal play might make you teste
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Apr 11, 2012
Give piss a chance
Plus: Can too much kink disrupt your sex life?
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Feb 23, 2012
Has my coprophiliac boyfriend gone too far?
Plus: coy texting ex, and your chance to make dead Mormons gay!
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Dec 8, 2011
In this week's
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What's in the December 8, 2011, issue of the
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By Tal Rosenberg
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Dec 8, 2011
My husband has given me permission to do my first love. Should I?
Plus: a reactionary slave, please don't call us LGBT-friendly straight guys "queer"
By Dan Savage
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Dec 1, 2011
Do I have to call myself a lesbian?
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Sep 1, 2011
I'm GGG, but my husband seems to want more.
Plus: My wife hit me when I told her I jerk off to other people. Also: Married in name only.
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Savage Love
Jun 30, 2011
Savage Love: Compromising on kink
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Jun 16, 2011
Savage Love: 'How do you get spanked wrong?'
Plus: How to please your man when you don't like anal, a mom is worried about her daughter's fetish, and more
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Apr 21, 2011
Savage Love: How Can Breast Milk be Sexy?
Plus: How to get over her fear of penises, accommodating an odd fetish, and life as a sexual tourist
By Dan Savage
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Savage Love
Mar 17, 2011
Savage Love: A Three-Way Goes Bad
Plus: Should a rent boy disclose his profession? And, Savage helps seal a three-way
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Feb 24, 2011
Savage Love: February 24, 2011
Her increased arousal could be cancer; dealing with a big hooha and a small wee-wee, and return of santorum
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Feb 25, 2010
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"Excrement is for anal what Representative Elliot is for the New Hampshire state legislature."
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