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- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jul 23, 2020
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If I’m in love, then why do I want to sleep with a hot barista?
The culture tells us cheating is a relationship-extinction-level event.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 23, 2019
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School for sexual scoundrels
How can inveterate cheaters find happiness? Facing up to facts is a start.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 10, 2018
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‘Help, I'm a real-life 47-year-old virgin!’
Dan offers advice for losing it in middle age, handling potentially destructive secrets, and more.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Aug 29, 2018
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‘Why is this woman giving me blow jobs?’ and more from the mailbag
Plus: A Savage-approved use for a crush, an awkward intro to Dirty Roulette
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Apr 25, 2018
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A serial adulterer makes a case for himself, and gets reamed
Plus: What’s good for the gander is good for the gander.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Apr 11, 2018
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How to get laid without freaking out
Advice for a victim of sexual abuse and rape. Plus: Help, I snooped and discovered what I most feared!
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jan 4, 2018
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Can a heavy flirtation with an ex be justified?
Dan counsels a married letter writer. Plus: a suspicious mind and a top to be run from
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Dec 6, 2017
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What happened to the early, funny Savage Love columnist?
Dan deals with a depression that may or may not be seasonal.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Nov 29, 2017
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No sparks, no soap, no sex—what's a nice guy to do?
The rules of the game post Weinstein
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 13, 2017
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Is my husband having sex with other women?
Dan Savage advises a separated wife, a frustrated man, and more.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 29, 2016
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Should a guilt-plagued CPOS keep his mouth shut?
Or should this self-described cheating piece of shit fess up? Plus: racialized sex fantasies and some tough love from Uncle Dan
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 22, 2016
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No vasectomy, no more open marriage?
A wife wants her husband snipped—or else. Plus: a solution for the sexually fickle, a possible dastardly dick, and a self-described straight 64-year-old who wants to try “the gay side of life”
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 8, 2015
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He's got cheatin' on his mind . . .
Sexlessness leads to restlessness. Plus: advice for a would-be adviser, tips for a would-be bottom
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 2, 2015
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How not to be an asshole
Two cheaters and a fickle young cad fess up to bad behavior.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Sep 25, 2015
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What to do when the friend with benefits sleeps with the BFF
Roommate + longtime drunken lay = trouble. Plus: What does it mean when you find a pair of tit clamps in a dresser?
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Aug 20, 2015
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Boy problems
Dan Savage advises the partners of a jealous boyfriend, an even more absurdly jealous boyfriend, and two asshole boyfriends.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jun 4, 2015
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How can a self-proclaimed reformed cheater persuade women he's reformed?
Plus: advice for the unreformed and unrepentant
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Apr 2, 2015
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My husband the wanker
Another reminder to clear your browser history, guys. Plus: the price of admission, the downside of a thrill
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Mar 19, 2015
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A cuckold's dilemma
And Dan Savage's three questions to ask yourself should you be so inclined. Plus: romantic love and open relationships, married love and a 12-year diet of blow jobs
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Feb 5, 2015
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Does a lifetime of lousy sex legitimize cheating?
Plus: Whistle-blowing in regard to your wife's sexual history, and reigniting a sex life without killing your husband
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Jun 19, 2014
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Polyamory prep
Plus: Fantasy fucking your partner, and reconsidering the #NotAllMen hashtag.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Feb 6, 2014
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Know your dildo
Plus: Flipping a coin for a lifetime of happily-ever-after rimming, and advising a shaken employee about his cuckolding ways
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 17, 2013
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Spoiler alert: Everybody dies
Enough with all the little deaths. This week: big death!
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Feb 7, 2013
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Second wind of the cuckold
Giving an open relationship another chance. Plus: Vaginal sex is still not the only kind of sex.
- Columns & Opinion, Savage Love Oct 24, 2012
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Porn, this way
On the enjoyment of erotic images and the hazards of same. Plus: Should I tell my boyfriend I fingered my roommate?