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News & Features, Savage Love, Dec 19, 2012
My brother’s peeper

Kinky bros post pics online. Plus: separating extreme fantasies from an extremely bad past.
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Australia, BDSM, violent sexual fantasies, extreme sexual fantasies, antidepressants, erotic humiliation, naked pictures, kinks

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News & Features, Savage Love, Sep 26, 2012
Folsom Street Blues

Are public displays of perversion bad for equality? Plus: equitable anal sex.
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Folsom Street Fair, gay leather, fetish, BDSM, sadomasochism, civil rights, LGBT equality, pride parades, gay rights movement, Stonewall, butt plugs, anal sex, anal play, pegging, oral sex, first dates

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News & Features, Savage Love, Aug 29, 2012
Sleepfuck with me

Sex that's like a dream. Plus: getting ass without being an asshole.
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, sexsomnia, BDSM, night sex, sleepwalking, sleepfucking, Jesse Bering, penile flicking, sadism, assholes

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News & Features, Savage Love, May 15, 2012
Yes we cane

Plus: Fifty Shades of Grey, a legal gray area, and a shout-out to Obama
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, caning, Fifty Shades of Grey, BDSM, 2 Girls, 1 Cup, kinks, kinky sex, vanilla sex, sexual peak, slut shaming, public sex, masturbation, gay marriage

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News & Features, Savage Love, Mar 21, 2012
Finding the dom of your dreams

Plus: straight talk on a gay secret, and tips for keeping menstrual blood off hotel sheets
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, submission, dom/sub, Ivy League, coming out, BDSM, bondage, sexual orientation, affair, sexcapades, double life, monogamish, menstrual blood, hotel sheets

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News & Features, Savage Love, Feb 2, 2012
Why lie about sending pictures of your cock in a chastity belt?

Plus: Can there be dominance without degradation? That goes double for disapproving moms
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, kinky, submissive, professional dom, chastity belt, flirting online, snooping, erotic transparency, dominance, degradation, vanilla guys, dominant boyfriend, true sub, femdom sex blog, BDSM, BDSM dungeon

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News & Features, Savage Love, Jan 19, 2012
Is using "safe word" as a safe word laughable?

Plus: what to do when your son comes out, call for monogamy testimonials
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, gay, coming out, gay son, out of the closet, GLSEN, Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network, school harassment, Safe Space Kit, BDSM, safe word, You're Doing it Wrong, YDIW, monogamish, gay monogamy, gay marriage, Canada

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Blogs, Bleader, Dec 15, 2011
In this week's Reader: Money talks, twice

What's in the December 15th, 2011 issue of the Reader
- by Tal Rosenberg
- Tags: Inside the Reader, News, Behind Our Scenes, Steve Bogira, campaign finance, Deanna Isaacs, Chicago Publishes, censorship, Michael Miner, Chicago Tribune, Ben Joravsky, Christmas, Mudville, Ted Cox, Blackhawks, You Are Here, Jennifer French, FBI, Travis Lampe, illustrator, toy-maker, Bronzeville, Ida B. Wells-Barnett, Savage Love, BDSM

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News & Features, Savage Love, Dec 15, 2011
Should I feel guilty about my spanking kink?

My boyfriend's one-night stand with a younger woman is preying on me, tips for budding females into BDSM
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, spanking, consent, consensual kink, affairs, cheating, bitchez be crazy, BDSM

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News & Features, Savage Love, Dec 8, 2011
My husband has given me permission to do my first love. Should I?

Plus: a reactionary slave, please don't call us LGBT-friendly straight guys "queer"
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, first love, old flame, romance, GGG, marriage, BDSM, kinks, eroticization of power structures, sex slavery, fantasies, LGBT community

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News & Features, Savage Love, Nov 17, 2011
Tips for novice doms

Plus: tips for dealing with blow job bestowers, when vaginal sex is a big nothing
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, BDSM, bondage, submissive, dom, BDSM tops, ejaculate, oral sex, blow jobs, spit or swallow, vaginal orgasm, clitoral orgasm

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News & Features, Savage Love, Jun 30, 2011
Savage Love: Compromising on kink
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Dan Savage, fisting, GGG, BDSM, bondage, kink, cervix

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News & Features, Savage Love, Jun 16, 2011
Savage Love: 'How do you get spanked wrong?'

Plus: How to please your man when you don't like anal, a mom is worried about her daughter's fetish, and more
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Dan Savage, kinky, BDSM, GGG, gay, anal sex alternatives, sneezing fetish, parenting, relationship advice, three-way, vasectomy, pregnant

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News & Features, Savage Love, Sep 2, 2010
Savage Love: September 2, 2010

Don't fear the poopnoodle.
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, virgin, webcam, social anxiety, Ken Mehlman, Ben Quayle, dominatrix, BDSM, cream pie, poopnoodle, anal sex

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News & Features, Savage Love, May 13, 2010
Savage Love: May 13, 2010

"I propose that whatever floats your boat be immediately and permanently retired in favor of whatever lifts your luggage."
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, BDSM, play party, scrotum, prostate, George Rekers, rentboy.com, Family Research Council, NARTH, National Association for Research & Therapy of Homosexuality, George "Rentboy" Rekers

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News & Features, Savage Love, Dec 17, 2009
Savage Love: December 17, 2009

A very special all-BDSM episode of Savage Love
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, BDSM, bondage, sadomasochism

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News & Features, Feature, Nov 19, 2009
A Kink in the Campaign

If his challenge to Deb Mell's nominating petition succeeds, state rep candidate Joe Laiacona just might run unopposed in the Democratic primary. But can a leather master actually win in the general election?
- by Hunter Clauss
- Tags: Feature, Joe Laiacona, Columbia College, Richard Mell, Deborah Mell, Deb Mell, Richard Means, leather master, Jack Rinella, Leather Views, Gay Chicago Magazine, LeatherViews.com, The Master's Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance, Becoming a Slave: The Theory & Practice of Voluntary Servitude, Philosophy in the Dungeon: The Magic of Sex & Spirit, Craig Gernhardt, Dan Sutherland, Patrick Herlihy, joe4forty.blogspot.com, Nomination Papers, Dick Simpson, Barack Obama, Alice Palmer, Board of Elections, Mike Kasper, Next Generation Chicago, BDSM, Leather Archives & Museum, sadomasochism, Michael Madigan, Chuck Renslow, Dan O'Brien, International Mr. Leather, Man's Country, 40th District, DungeonPlace.com, FetishCast, Cook County Democratic Central Committee, George Dunne

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News & Features, Savage Love, Aug 27, 2009
Savage Love, August 27, 2009

"Someone telling me that God hates me is about as hurtful as someone telling me that the Blue Fairy thinks I look fat in these jeans."
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, God, The Blue Fairy, gays, Savage Love, sex workers, DTMFA, bad relationships, sex advice, pegging, BDSM, spanking

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News & Features, Savage Love, Jun 11, 2009
Savage Love, June 11, 2009

Is pooping on the couch a deal breaker?
- by Dan Savage
- Tags: Savage Love, Savage Love, pooping on the couch, electrical play, e-stim, BDSM, just friends

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