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, Mar 21, 2012
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, Mar 14, 2012
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, Feb 23, 2012
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, Jan 19, 2012
Is using "safe word" as a safe word laughable?
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, Jan 12, 2012
Dan Savage sticks it to Rick Santorum
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, Jan 5, 2012
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, Dec 29, 2011
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, Dec 22, 2011
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, Dec 15, 2011
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, Dec 8, 2011
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, Dec 1, 2011
Do I have to call myself a lesbian?
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, Nov 23, 2011
Does not wanting to date or sleep with a trans woman make me transphobic?
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